Saturday was the end-of-season pizza party for L's soccer team. I was wearing my Big Blue Test shirt, and as I approached the parents' table, one of the dads asked me about it.
Him: Big Blue Test, huh? Is that a Michigan thing? Is there a game today?
Me: No, it's a diabetes thing. November is diabetes awareness month, and the Big Blue Test is where you test your blood sugar, then exercise, then test again and share the results online. For every result shared, a person with diabetes in need gets help and supplies.
Him: Oh man, I guess I should know about that stuff, I'm a diabetic.
Me: Oh yeah?
Him: Well, that's what my doc says, but I kinda refuse to believe it.
Me: Oh, so you're a DENIAL-betic then? j/k lol
Him: Yeah, for sure. I know I have it, but I refuse to admit it.
We then got into a rather detailed conversation (for a pizza party anyway) about how he was diagnosed and what his BGs have been and what meds he's on and how they're not really working, even though he's lost weight, etc etc and eventually I was just like, "Look dude. I don't mean to get heavy on you in the middle of this joyous occasion, but there's a possibility that you may have been misdiagnosed with Type 2 when you might actually have Type 1.5 or LADA." He had never heard of it, so I encouraged him to ask his endocrinologist about it. Then he told me he didn't actually have an endo.
Long story short(ish), later that night I sent him some links and hopefully he'll find a good doc that can dig a little deeper and get to the bottom of what's really going on. Oh and I also told him to come by and pick up some ketone strips if he wanted to. Because I just can't leave it at pizza party advocacy; I have to take it to the maybe-you-should-pee-on-a-stick-to-make-sure-you're-not-gonna-go-into-DKA level.
Because, if you're gonna have the conversation, then you know, HAVE the conversation. (warning: boobs)
You are awesome... it's crazy to think that he had NO idea! So glad you were there to edu-ma-cate him.
ReplyDeleteWOW! People like him blow me away. I'm shaking my head. Imagine if you hadn't been wearing that shirt...
ReplyDeleteIf you learn anything more, keep us posted. I'll be curious as to whether he actually does have something other than type 2, whether he comes to terms with his health, whether he ever goes into DKA, etc.
High five to you for making a difference!
BTW, your movie reference made me laugh. :)
Yeah for you speaking up! I hope he gets the help that he urgently needs.
ReplyDeleteGod Bless You
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LOLZ LOLZ. also, yay for you! i am curious to see how that turns out for him.
ReplyDeleteYou GO, taking it to the pee-on-a-strip level!
ReplyDeleteSeriously, what is this guy's doctor (not-an-endo) thinking?
Lucky he ran into you, and hope he gets it sorted.
I still need to see Singles (filmed near my bus stop, no less) - thanks for the big haired reminder!
Thanks for a great post
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Happy (post) Thanksgiving! Hope you all had plenty of naps, good food, and good blood sugars!
ReplyDeleteSo do we know what happened with this guy? CLIFFHANGER! (Also, hi.) :)
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