I wish people knew that diabetes...
- requires my kid to inject himself with a synthetic hormone regularly for the rest of his life
- comes with a shortened life expectancy and higher incidence of depression than the general population
- may cause my son to face discrimination from future employers
- is often misunderstood by people who do not have direct experience with it (including myself before my kid's diagnosis), which can be very damaging to those who live with it
- is frequently misrepresented and used as a punch line in pop culture, creating and reinforcing widespread myths and misconceptions
All of which sucks a lot. But I also wish people knew that diabetes:
- gets my kid into a summer camp where he can bond with other teens in the same boat as him
- has inspired active online communities filled with advocates speaking out and coming together for the cause
- is responsible for many friendships I may never have made without it in our lives
- has solidified my existing friendships, as people reach out to us to see how they can support our family
And guess what. Every single thing I listed above? Those are also things I wish people knew that transgender people have to deal with.
BOOM.
Let me be clear.
I am NOT saying that being transgender is a disease that needs to be cured.
I am saying that both diabetes and gender dysphoria are lifelong conditions that are greatly misunderstood by the general public. And by raising my voice, about both issues, I hope I can raise the visibility and remove some of the stigma surrounding them.
Check out my other blog for more musings on trans issues.
- is responsible for many friendships I may never have made without it in our lives
- has solidified my existing friendships, as people reach out to us to see how they can support our family
And guess what. Every single thing I listed above? Those are also things I wish people knew that transgender people have to deal with.
BOOM.
Let me be clear.
I am NOT saying that being transgender is a disease that needs to be cured.
I am saying that both diabetes and gender dysphoria are lifelong conditions that are greatly misunderstood by the general public. And by raising my voice, about both issues, I hope I can raise the visibility and remove some of the stigma surrounding them.
Check out my other blog for more musings on trans issues.